I don’t know about you, but I like to sleep around. I’ll sleep in beds, on couches, in the backseat of a car, or on a blanket in a park. I love long naps that last for hours and sleeping in until noon. Insomnia didn’t exist in my universe. Before college, I was homeschooled, and I set my own schedule for my classwork. As long as I got it done, my mom didn’t care if I was doing an assignment at 3 in the morning.
Even when I went to college, sleep was never a problem for me. I could have a cup of coffee or a soda in the evening and still go to bed at a reasonable hour. When my head hit the pillow, my mind and body would shut down almost immediately.
Then, I turned 25, and insomnia became a thing, a horrible thing.
It doesn’t happen often, but when insomnia strikes, it usually lasts for about a week of very little, poor quality sleep. My body is weary, but my mind refuses to power down. Naps also prove to be elusive, and it drives me crazy.
I decided to write this post because I actually had a cycle of insomnia last week. I was formatting this blog (my very first) and was losing my mind in website design. Side note: anyone who tells you that you can start a blog in 5 minutes is a liar.
After having two months off for summer vacation, I decided to start Unseen Footprints one week before I was scheduled to go back to work, so I put myself under a time restriction. When my head hit the pillow, my mind wouldn’t stop- three days until you go back to work, why doesn’t it look that way on my phone?, did I pick the right color scheme?, what if this flops?, and so on.
Because this wasn’t my first case of insomnia, I used some tried and true remedies that have worked in the past. These remedies don’t work every time, but I usually find one that works each time insomnia strikes.
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Remedies for Insomnia
Twinings Nightly Calm Tea
This is probably one of the most popular suggestions, so I don’t mean to be redundant. However, it does work. I’ve tried several brands- Essentials Sleepy Time, Tazo’s calm chamomile, and Twinings Nightly Calm Tea. Twinings is my favorite with Tazo’s being a close second. When I’m having trouble sleeping, I try to avoid any caffeinated drinks after 4 pm and enjoy a warm cup of herbal tea before bed.
Lavender Essential Oil
A co-worker suggested essential oils when I was suffering from insomnia last year. I rub a couple of drops on my wrist and temple and let the Lavender Essential Oildo the rest. I use lavender on a nightly basis now, because I love it so much. After a few months, I invested in a diffuser as well, which smells great. When I don’t feel well, I switch on lavender for eucalyptus or peppermint essential oils to help ease congestion. (check out my Limoncello Green Tea Recipe for easing a sore throat!)
Audiobooks
This may seem like a weird choice, but it does work for me- kind of. I was on a long flight to Dubai a few months ago, and I usually cannot sleep on airplanes. Around hour 20 of being awake, I decided to check out the audiobooks on the plane’s entertainment system. I chose “A Picture of Dorian Grey.” Ya’ll, I swear I was out in 5 minutes. Since then, I’ve downloaded an audiobooks app that has free books that are in the public domain.
Now, on the plane, I didn’t have insomnia. I was just uncomfortable and hate flying, but I have since found audiobooks to be helpful when I’m trying desperately to get some sleep. You’ve got to pick the right book. If I put on Little Women, I won’t be getting any rest. The Biography of Benjamin Franklin, however, is a great choice. (Also, for some reason, I fall asleep much faster if the narrator is male. I tend to pay attention to the female readers more.) Third, even when audiobooks provide sleep, it is not a deep sleep. I will wake up several times to the voices of the reader, but some sleep is better than no sleep.
White Noise/Nature Sounds
I know all my fellow book lovers are gasping in horror at my audiobooks suggestion, so the Take a Break app is another helpful tool in getting some ZZZ’s. This is a meditation app, so there is a guided meditation. You can turn the woman’s voice off though and just listen to the sounds of the ocean. Amazon also sells a an Essential Oil Diffuser that is also a white noise machine.
Count- repeatedly
Not sheep. If I count sheep, my mind starts to notices different characteristics in the ewes. I’m dead serious. I started just counting, but then, my mind wants to know how high can I count before falling asleep. Instead, I just count to 10 over and over and over again until I eventually get bored and fall asleep. It may sound crazy, but this is my most successful trick to falling asleep. My aunt mentioned to me that she finds it helpful to count down from 100 by 3’s. I tried this a few times, but it took too much concentration for me.
Get up and do something
Stretch, lay out your clothes for the next day, take a shower- just get out of the bed and do something else for 30 minutes. Sometimes, I’m too focused on falling asleep to actually get any sleep. Don’t check facebook, play a game, or start a movie that you won’t be able to turn off. Electronics can be over-stimulating for your eyes, so avoid anything that’s going to keep you awake.
Avoid Caffeine
If you’ve experienced several nights of insomnia, try reducing or eliminating your caffeine intake. I’ve learned that I can’t drink coffee after 4 pm, or I will be up until midnight.
Do you have any Remedies for Insomnia? Let me know in the comments! Don’t forget to click on the picture below to re-pin!
Jennifer says
I have a long history of battling insomnia, not always successfully. You have good suggestions. I have two others to add. I once heard a sleep researcher on the radio talking about counting helping people go to sleep. However, the suggestion was to start at 300 and count backwards by 3s. I believe they said it is too hard for you to think about subtraction and other things at the same time. I’ve tried this with moderate success. The other I read about and it is to do deep breathing. Take a deep breath in through your nose and hold it for like 10+ seconds and the exhale through your mouth.
edmccartney says
Thanks for the additional suggestions! I hadn’t heard of those before, but I’ll have to try them the next time I experience insomnia.
Amber Myers says
I’ll keep all this in mind. My husband sometimes can’t sleep. It drives him nuts, especially when he has to wake up early.
Imaobong says
Funny thing is counting sheeps actually works for me!
Like I get so bored sleep is forced to take me away.
And herbal tea works wonders too.
Briana says
Chamomile is my go-to! But I definitely should try the audiobooks as well!
Anosa says
I think my insomnia got worst passed 25 too, now that I have a new mattress and always tire myself before bed its not happiness as much. Yesterday I had my herbal tea and levender candle and it was best night sleep
Ellie says
Lavender, chamomile tea and binaural beats on YouTube are my go-to solutions when I’m having trouble sleeping. Great tips!
CourtneyLynne says
Omg I definitely have sleep issues!!! Lavender oils definitely work wonders though!!!
blair villanueva says
I don’t lnow exactly the cause ofy own insomnia (or maybe because I have this busy mind?) But whenever I have it, that’s the time I have to take advantage the time, I got busy writing my drafts and edit some photos.. But if I really really want to reboot, a cup of warm tea and soft music are my company.
Divya @ Eat Teach Blog says
I’ve been fortunate when it comes to sleep, but on days when I am feeling restless, my lavender oils definitely calm me down too!
Chante Burkett says
This was a great read! I will be checking out some of these for my niece
edmccartney says
Thank you! Hopefully, they will help your niece!
Krystal // The Krystal Diaries says
I don’t suffer from insomnia but my husband does. I think some of these tips may help him.
Jasmine Watts says
I have sleep issues as well!! I need to try the audio books.
Becky Dawson says
Another AMAZING way to go to sleep is to listen to ASMR (auto sensory meridian response) videos on YouTube. There are probably over a million of them. You might want to google it first because some people are very confused/weirded out when first watching a video, but basically people make videos of sounds (tapping, eating, brushing, personal attention) that act as “triggers” to the listener. Not everyone experiences ASMR, but if you do, you’ll feel an amazing tingly sensation and it will relax you like nothing else. (You may have experienced this if you ever watched Bob Ross- his voice is a trigger for a lot of people!) A good place to start is with the old videos of YouTuber “Gentlewhispering”. She’s been doing it for years! Anyway, try it out! It could change your life!